The Importance of Self-Care

a man relaxing on a beach in white robe:text: the importance of self-care You’ve probably heard about the importance of self-care before. The idea of looking after yourself isn’t exactly a new one. Making it a priority to take care of your own physical, emotional, and spiritual needs have become more of a popular concept in recent years. But although we all like the idea of taking time out for ourselves, the truth is that many of us don’t actually do it.

So, why is self-care so important for our well-being? You can’t give anything from an empty cup. A lot of people, women especially, are very good at looking after everyone else. We put our families first or give our all to our job or our business. We also make a great time for our friends – but where do we make time for our own needs?

If you have 101 demands being made on your time, it’s all too easy just to let your own needs slide in an attempt to try and keep everyone else happy. But the more you do that, the less you’ll actually want to help people. You’ll get crabby when your children want you to look at something they’re doing. Your husband or partner might receive a snap from you. You’ll resent your boss for asking you to help on yet another project, and when your friends ask for help with something, you’ll roll your eyes and sigh loudly, feeling put upon.

Don’t be stressed out!

When you feel you have nothing left to give, you’ll be stressed out and exhausted. Don’t let things get to that stage; look after yourself and arrange some me-time so that you feel relaxed and happy. Always remember the importance of self-care. And don’t let other people’s demands wear you out so much. You can also say no to things if you really don’t want to do them or don’t have time. You are not on this earth to be at the beck and call of your nearest and dearest. You’re entitled to a life of your own and to do things you love to do, and that makes you feel good. And that is self-care.

Why You Shouldn’t Neglect Yourself…

Yes, we know that it’s just easier sometimes to give in. It’s easier to let your own needs slide and forget the little things that we enjoy when life gets busy. When we’re overwhelmed, taking time out to do something fun seems frivolous and like a luxury. Please stop and think about it the next time you’re tempted to work through lunch instead of making your gym or hair appointment, though; self-care actually makes you more productive and less stressed. That is the importance of self-care.

  • Self-care stops you from getting burned out. Pushing yourself to the point where you’re exhausted and can’t take one more demand isn’t good for anyone. Would you please make a point of taking care of yourself before it gets that bad? Take care of yourself first to avoid a lot of potential stress in the future.
  • Practicing self-care is a great stress reducer. We all need a little bit of stress to get things done sometimes. But too much stress and anxiety will create havoc on your mind and your body. Doing nice things that you enjoy and looking for your own well-being stops the effects of stress from taking over. This will make you more productive and much nicer to be around.
  • Self-care can help you to get your focus back. Whether it’s the luxury of a full spa day or just an hour’s walking or session at the gym, getting away from something that has you really stuck can help you to work out what it is that needs to be done. Take a break from that tricky issue. All the answers may just come to you when you stop looking for it so frantically!

Start to know and practice self-care.

Have we convinced you to take care of yourself now? Have we convinced you to prioritize yourself first to be more productive? Take a walk outside during your free time. Enjoy nature or the city lights at night. Or give yourself some break and enjoy some relaxing time at a spa or skin care clinic. Self-care can help you answer and do more of your friends and family’s request. Start by calling us for a facial session or book online for a relaxing massage.


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Burlington, Vermont